Life is short ... too short for us to learn every lesson it has to offer ... to adhere to every rule there is ... to take every precaution to avoid pain.. it doesn't mean that you go out enjoying everything there is without a care ... but enjoy life ... don't be afraid to do so ... if bees got afraid of flowers just because of "Bandura" they would never find the taste of honey ... if a mother got afraid of labor pains we would never be born ... and she would never enjoy the happiness of a child ... true ... amid all that still there are bees that get caught and mothers that suffer ... but amazing things are born when you're not afraid to feel the pain ... life will not wait for you to learn your lessons and then be happy .. people will not wait for you to learn them totally and then trust ... every person who has attained something has given something ... true you can lead the neutral life ... no unhappiness ... no sadness... but then you will be no different from a bacteria ... you are just a life form living for the sake of living ... but life is much more than that ... what make life life is the tears, the laughter, the pain, the happiness ... and you cannot say everything is balanced ... just because you didn't laugh nature is not going to stop taking your loved ones away when it feels like it ... and then if you hadn't laughed with them all you will have will be tears for them ... give life a chance... give yourself a chance... be happy ... and don't be afraid to be happy ...
Every person is different ... just because you might not have what others have doesn't mean that your different than the whole world ... don't be hard on yourself ... change if it is for a good thing ... but don't change trying to be someone else ... if world wanted two persons in the same way then you would have been born like that other person ... but you are who you are because world wanted you the way you are ... if you feel different and see that only in yourself be glad that you’re unique ... not everyone is that fortunate ... take the good in evil ... see the good in bad...
If he can laugh then you have every reason to laugh … he has all the reasons in the world to cry … but he doesn’t … but he laughs … will it neutralize the tears he have to go through??? it will more than do that … because he will not cry … his happiness will outweigh his sadness … and that will bring hope and happiness to people around him … he doesn’t let his condition affect others and he doesn’t let other’s sadness affect him… instead he affects other people with his smile
If your friends sadness affect you don’t get affected … be the strength they need … give the happiness they need … then you will be happy and they will be happy …
Be happy … why ? because you deserve it
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